'Tip Your Hat' or 'Tip Your Hand'?

Keith, one of our regular listeners, wrote in recently to ask about two similar idioms. He wasn’t sure about the difference between “tip your hand” and “tip your hat.” 

Keith, here’s the story. 

'Tip Your Hat' Means to Acknowledge an Accomplishment

To “tip your hat” means acknowledge something awesome that someone else did. You might tip your hand to the football coach who suggested a winning play. Or tip your hat to your dad if he made an extra-delicious dinner.

This expression dates all the way back to the 1600s, when it was customary for men to wear hats when they were outside the home. You would “tip your hat”—that is, touch your hand to the brim or lift the whole thing off your head—to greet someone or acknowledge their presence. You’d also take off your hat completely when you entered a building or sat down to eat, as a way of showing respect. 

As John Donne put it in one of his poems: “…when thou meet’st one … raise they formall hate.”

A variation of this phrase is “hats off to …,” as in “Hats off to Susie, our employee of the month!” And it’s related to the expression “hat in hand.” If you go to someone hat in hand, you approach them with extreme deference, usually to ask for a favor or beg for charity. Your hat would be in your hand as a sign of respect and submission.

'Tip Your Hand' Means to Reveal Your Strategy

Let’s look at our next idiom. To “tip your hand” means to accidentally reveal your intentions before you mean to. For example, you might “tip your hand” if you let a real estate agent know much you love the house you’re looking at. Now they know that if you try to negotiate on price, they can just hold firm and you won’t walk away.

This expression was first seen in the early 1900s, when it was sometimes expressed as to “tip your mitt.” It’s believed to come from card games, where if you tip your hand too far forward, you would expose your cards to the opposing player. 

Doing so would be the exact opposite of “playing things close to the vest,” another expression that comes from card games. It means to reveal almost nothing of your thoughts or strategy. You can picture a player literally holding their cards right by their chest, so no one else could see them. 

So, that’s your tidbit for today. To “tip your hat” is to acknowledge someone’s accomplishment or status. To “tip your hand” means to accidentally reveal your intentions....

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